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Started by Victoria, August 24, 2010, 10:03:22 PM

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Victoria

Hi everyone i just stopped by to see how everything was going!

YourLoveOnly

#1
Okay, now you are going to hate me right away, but that's just how it is. I had hoped if you ever decided to come back you would have learned something. But I've seen you make two posts and both are offensive to me so I am going to try and explain my issue here.

One is in a thread that someone else started to show off their art and you tried to take over the thread with a picture of your own even though it was not a generic post-your-picture thread but something posted by a single user to show off their own work. If it had been an active thread I would have still considered it rude, but it wasn't even an active thread, you went ahead and took over a thread that no one was even posting in anymore. It is okay to post in an inactive thread to say wow, nice art or something like that, but in general you are not supposed to bump up old threads.

The other one is this. Remember when you left how lots of people said you were kinda dragging a lot of unneccessary attention to yourself? Although I hate PI, they have a rule against goodbye threads because it just spurs up unneccessary drama. When you left you didn't go quietly, you decided to start a thread to announce it and insult pretty much everyone on here and the site itsself, basically just made a fuzz that was uncalled for. Now you are back and instead of joining in and following the rules this time, you start a thread to make a big hi here I am again type of announcement, immediately trying to gather all the attention. I am sorry, but that just rubs me the wrong way. And by the lack of replies in this thread I am guessing I am not the only one who feels this way (although I could be wrong about that of course).

SeaCrest

Agreed. The only reason I didn't post is because I decided not to waste my time responding when you (Victoria) tended to ignore everything anybody posted and just take insult.

Neocridders

Hi! I wasn't going to say anything, but I'm going to anyway.
I think it's fine to come back after leaving. I want to say I agree with YLO here though for the most part.

On another note, no one here is being rude by saying this. While you were last here, you seemed to take offense at a lot of stuff. People want to help, they want you to learn and fit in and have fun, but you must meet them half way.
It's not possible to think that moving to a new place with different rules will have people flexing to your way from your old home. When you move to a new place, there will be different laws. You can't expect to go very far successfully by hoping people go with your old way. You've got to be open to learn and understand. Usually in new places someone will help you along to understand, but you can't get mad when they tell you how things are usually done.

And in real life, when you move, you are expected to follow laws even if they are different. It's how society works.

Now I'm not saying you've broken laws :) I'm just trying to help you understand why people were trying to help, but you were seeming a bit unwilling to learn how things worked. I hope if you stay here, you'll learn how things are done before jumping in and getting confused.
And I'm not saying don't jump in. No. Feel free to! But try to understand a thread before you do :) usually threads have topics you can talk about and it's easier when you read and know where a conversation is already rather thn jumping in blindly.

I hope that helps you. We are here to help you, but again you must meet us half way :)


Victoria

Ok i understand. Also I did not know we could not make goodbye threads or hi threads its not in the rules so i did not know  ???. Also i did not know we could not post simalar pictures in a thread, and again its not anywhere. Anyway i notice some new things that have happen Secundi lol. Very cool lol!

Victoria

Also i drew a cute tadpole that would be perfect for a new type of pet here.

YourLoveOnly

If we need to post everything that is not polite or smart to do that would become a very lengthy scary rule thread XD Also real rules are more things that you múst follow or you'll get in trouble (like get banned or something). This is just something that is frowned upon as it is obviously trying to get attention in a mostly negative way (especially with a goodbye thread)

Victoria

Quote from: YourLoveOnly on August 25, 2010, 03:05:09 PM
If we need to post everything that is not polite or smart to do that would become a very lengthy scary rule thread XD Also real rules are more things that you múst follow or you'll get in trouble (like get banned or something). This is just something that is frowned upon as it is obviously trying to get attention in a mostly negative way (especially with a goodbye thread)

Ok thx i wont do it again

YourLoveOnly

We also told you not to double post. If you want to add something either edit or if you wanna make sure people see it repost and delete the old one. Posting twice in a row without another reply is considered spam. (It ís okay during events where you are not allowed to edit and you made a mistake, then you can post again immediately to fix it)

Victoria

Ok i thought it was ok to double post but no more than that?

red_uni387

I would also like to add that you should be able to figure out what is proper and what is frowned upon simply by looking at other threads. YLO is being very kind and pointing out things you should not do so you only have to go about to a quarter to meet her. We all make mistakes, but it's better to try and learn everything you can before jumping in. :)

Victoria

Oh wel like i said im new to this so i do not know everything about this place.

PonyMama

So make sure read rules in event threads before posting
If someone points something out that you should not do, try not to do it again

other then that enjoy, and learn the community, it is a great place to hang out when you get into the flow

YourLoveOnly

Okay, now I am not so nice anymore, I just remembered we still don't know if you committed art theft and I personally believe you stole that snail as I have told you before, so I have asked if that can be looked into again. It was never solved because you left.

If it turns out you did not steal anything then by all means, welcome back. It appears you are willing to learn this time, which is nice.

Victoria

Yeah i understand now that you all are just trying to help so i will be more open to everyone now.